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This transitional day marks an end to the hottest summer on record and a very busy season in Montauk.  Our thoughts as parents are leaning towards the school days ahead but what a great day to stay in the present! Whether  you are at the beach, a pool, on a boat or taking down time somewhere else savor this sunny, gentle day.

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Well, we’re hoping that Earl stays 100 miles off the coast of Montauk and if that’s the case, you’ll just need to plan for Rainy Day Activities.  Here’s some things to do:

1-Watch the storm!  Listen to the news to see if it is safe to head outdoors.  The beaches will be wild but stay away during high tides when they’re predicting the water will be at the dunes- Friday 5:20, Saturday 5:41 am and 6:15 pm.  Stay away from heavily wooded areas.

2-Bring the Kids to the Montauk Yacht Club for Surf Craft on Friday from 10-2 and 5-7 pm.  You can schedule a massage, dine or head for the bar.

3- Go to Rick’s Crabby Cowboy Cafe for Rainy Day Bingo in the afternoon.  Call to make sure they’re open.

4- Go to Captain Kid Toys or one of the stores in town for crafts, puzzles, books and games and hunker down inside.

5- Go to the Montauk Community Center to play in the Gym.

6- Spend a little time in the Montauk Library and read up on the history of Montauk.  Make it a game with the kids!

7- If it’s too scary to venture out to a restaurant, get some of your Montauk faves to go and have an indoor Lobster and Clam Bake!

On the Green…instead of Monday.  6 -8 pm- don’t miss it.

This is a tribute to my father, Clifford E. Bowen Jr, who passed away just two days ago after a very long battle with Acute Leukemia.  I had the privilege to be by his side and with him before he embarked on his new journey.  My father was my teacher, confidant and friend.  He gave me more gifts than I would ever expect from a parent.  He was an extraordinary  man but his gift of understanding the human condition and giving good advice and guidance was his strength.  He was also an excellent athlete, cook, manager, lover of the arts and philosophy, world traveler and one of the funniest people I knew.

One of the pearls of wisdom that he gave to me years ago was to “Tend to my garden”.  This was when we were in Italy together passing a beautiful home garden area.  He said “whether its literal or metaphoric, keep focus on the things that nourish you, enrich you and ground you”.   Those words have spoken to me time and time again over the past years and then again this summer as I took it more literally.  Having not been a seasoned gardener, I heard his words as I tried to keep focus on something when I had the distractions of illness and disease right before me.  I was so happy to bring him zucchini and herbs because one of his favorite things to do was cook and eat with his family.  We made it a point up until his last day to eat with him and “break bread together”.
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It is summer sale time! That bathing suit you have been wanting all year is finally more affordable! Don’t waist time, BUY IT! Well try it on first and then buy it. You are all tan and looking beach ready so now is a great time to buy some new sumer pieces and store them for next year. Put them away so when you are wanting to buy something new at full price next spring you will all ready have a little stash of brand new pieces that have been waiting for you all winter long. Even better, buy it now for your winter vacation. I always love to shop sales. I think of it as wise spending. I do the same for the kids and my husband. I know we will be away in a warm place this winter and I know I will want something new. Buying now saves money later. The same as if when you shop and you don’t get a proper bag and shove the item wrapped in tissue in your handbag it is not like shopping at all. You are allowed to come home and tell your husband “But it was 60% off!” So can can walk in the house with the shopping bag announcing to the world you did spend  just a little money. On line has some of the best sales going on now too. J.Crew has great bathing suits for girls. I stocked up on 5 new suits and a dress all for $94!!!! Gap, Old Navy, Children’s Place, Boden, Garnet Hill, Hanna Anderson… The online list is long.
In Montauk I like to shop at Kai Lani right next to Sangha Yoga for lots of great basics. They also have the BEST vegan leather look handbags. Calypso too has some amazing deals from time to time. I always shop their sale rack. A new cashmere sweater always makes a girl happy especially when it is HALF price.
Happy Hunting

Photo: Courtesy of Patrick Smith, squarefootagefilms.com.

Have you seen the talent at the Montauk Skate Park? These kids (and adults) are serious about boarding and biking!  It is something to see and maybe try…but bring your helmet, it’s required.  I’d say ages 8 and up but I do know a sassy 5 year old that could burn it up there.
The park is open in season from 10am -10 pm.  Bring your kids, it’s not always crowded.  The park closes when it rains. On South Essex- make a left when driving East on Main Street and go up one block….on the left.